Actor, Model and a Gentlemen

Actor, Model and a Gentlemen

Kalon Jackson made his pilgrimage to New York 4 years ago. He first settled in Mount Vernon but has been a Brooklyn native for the last 3 yrs. Raised by single mom who kept him close, she instilled values in him that he believes in today, helping others. A strong religious foundation first helped when dealing with the industry's shader side.When I asked about the differences between his home in South Carolina and his current residence Kalon responded by saying, " NY will make you stronger. I've slept on trains @ one point , even asked for money but I stayed on my grind. It was harder to get help from others up here (New York) which is different from the south. Help thy neighbor was definitely part of southern living." Mr. Jackson went to the military, the Navy, straight out of high school which took him from Australia to Dubai. Travelling was an eye-opener for him @ such a young age and it made him want to show that to all those he knew. "Travel means a lot to me. Anyone that knows me will tell you I will spend my last $100 on travel."


Kalon came to NY to model and worked with P. Diddy for Sean John amongst others, it was working for him. "A lot of people told me I should branch out. "All My Children" was my 1st acting gig had a small role in "The Brave One" starring Jodie Foster. From those small roles I kept networking. I just finished a supporting role in Spike Lee's film "Miracle at Saint Anna" and am currently looking to executive produce a few projects." Starting October 10th on HBO you can catch him on "Sex Chronicles" based on a book by author Zain. I asked him how he would like to use his stardom to better the world he lived in and his answer came quickly. "From community centers to seminars, I'd like to educate the youth who are interested in modelling or acting. Don't have another person judge your beauty. I want to be able to give back however I can. Bring healthy looking models back to the forefront and rid the industry of the skinny model image. I've always had love for Queen Latifah as a big beautiful woman. I would like to bring God to the forefront also an let people know that he is necessary." Words to grow on.

As usual. the B.M.B.S. Family strives to bring our readers the brightest stars and the latest news. To check out Kalon in the future check him out at www.myspace.com/kalonjackson. This has been Red.71 reporting, keep my ear to the street and bringing you the exclusive. Stay Beautiful Mind Body & Soul. The B.M.B.S. Family.

Jalene Mojica... A Sweet Serenade

I arrived on time after braving NYC traffic and congestion. Although I left in ample time I got stuck on the 59th Street Bridge for half an hour, typical. Thanks to industry standards the show started late and I didn't miss a beat. The event was hosted by Malik Brooks and turned out to be a house full of talent in all shapes and sizes. I was taken aback by the ambiance at first but it turned out to be the perfect setting. Jalene's segment started off a bit rocky due to technical difficulties. Once the mic was adjusted and her live guitarist toned down his amp we were off. Ms. Mojica chose an Alicia Keys selection to start off. Dressed in black tights, tall black leather boots made for walking' and short jacket Jalene looked and sounded like the star she is. Her second selection was an original selection "Let's Get Down Tonite" produced by T&J Sidekicks, that got the crowd waving their arms and grooving to her vocal stylings. Before long the audience was participating and clapping for more. There was an overwhelming request for an encore but she chose to bless the crowd with an accapella that moved them. I had the opportunity to catch up with her after the performance, after waiting for her to thank her supporters and family and there was a line. With such strong support she is well equipped to pursue her dreams. Since life isn't always a bowl of cherries, I asked her what, if anything, ticked her off about the industry? "Bullshit artist. Be about your business." Straight and to the point.

Jalene was born and raised in the South Bronx and has been singing since six. "I'm inspired by family and friends who support me and see my dream for me daily even when I don't. I wrote my first song in my living room about 2 and half years ago." She is currently working on a 5 song demo as well material for a possible production deal. Nate Timmerman is her engineer, guitarist, and does vocal production. "The greatest obstacle I've had to face has nothing to do with myself or my team. I think the way the industry works now it creates more work for the artist with the extinction of a&rs there is no more artist development. I'm blessed to have family that understands that I can't always be there all the time but they show up for me always. My family empowers me." She firmly believes that we are all given a passion for a reason. Its not an accident. God has a plan. "It hurts my soul to know that there is so much poverty in this world, namely third world countries. I would like to shed light on some of the lesser known evils that affects poorer and less privileged people."

What are Jalene's plans for the future? "I will graduate with a masters in English in may 2009 and am looking at a few scripts as I try my hand @ acting. Long Island University where I pledged Sigma Iota Alpha as an undergraduate, which a latina based sorority that embraces all races."

With all that lies before her, Jalene has a long road ahead of her but it won't be a dark one. She has a light that will touch everyone she comes across and we, the B.M.B.S. Family wish her all the success. Until then stay Beautiful Mind Body & Soul.

After years of rumors and bated breath, Brooklyn's favorite amusement park closes its doors on Sunday, September 7th, 2008. Astroland, which was built along Coney Island's beachfront, has been home to hundreds of vendors and thousands of fun seekers for decades. From its roller rink and freak shows to the infamous Wonder Wheel and Cyclone rollercoaster, Astroland has had its healing affects on us all. Almost any summer night was sure to bring out lovers and friends. Its boardwalk was been the scene for many 1st kisses and fun filled photos.

Astroland has been an important part of New York City summers for several reasons. Not only does it bring tourists from all over the globe but it serves as a recreation area for the whole family and the best part is you can get there by train. I believe that to be one of the greatest things about Astroland. Six Flags Great Adventure was a two hour bus/car ride away in neighboring New Jersey and Long Island's Adventure Land had nowhere near the appeal. Astroland was across the street from housing projects and in the midst of the everyday bustle. Coney Islanders commuting everyday probably took the spectacle for granted. While some clammer for a view of the Manhattan skyline, the lights radiating from the rides and attractions provided a view not enjoyed by most. People of all ages and races have had the privilege of sunbathing along Brooklyn's shores while taking in the aroma of Nathan's Famous.

It was quite a turnout and respectful so for such an historic part of New York. An elderly couple enjoyed the sun and a couple of ice cream cones on the boardwalk as rollerskaters hit the rink for a few last laps. I even took my turn at the Shoot the Freak paintball booth before winning a Hello Kitty for my girlfriend. All right, it took three tries at the water gun before I won but I did it. Meanwhile, a hot dog was read its last rites before being devoured an older woman who had found her spot to enjoy her taste of Brooklyn. Feeling I need to leave with a piece of the park I contemplated taking a piece of the Nathan's sign but with the abundant police presence I settled for a souvenier cap instead.

Despite my passing thought of mischief the day went by without incident or disturbance. The preceding day the city was drenched with 4 inches of rain but this day it was picture perfect blue and warm as any early summer day. As night fell the temerature stayed warm and balmy. As the sun faded so did the crowd. Those who came with their children headed to their cars or the train station with cotton candy or some stuff bear tucked under their arm. Smiling faces plastered the streets like the latest movie advertisements. Brooklyn has been known for many things from its Dodgers to its pizza but everybody remembers summers in Coney Island. From the boardwalk to Surf Avenue the sounds of laughter, cheers and screams of joy could be heard. I can't imagine the silence and the lack of lights in Brooklyn. I can't fathom the stillness that will be tomorrow's tomorrow. No matter what my mind tells me, one thing is for certain, Astroland will be no more. While the Wonder Wheel and the Cyclone Rollercoaster will be spared as historical landmarks many of those small but essential sights and sounds will be gone. I'm glad that I was a part of this moment in time as I recollected my own good times spent here. Astroland was an out of this world experience for the native New Yorker and you will be sorely missed. To the side street peddlers of chance and the freaks of nature that put on an unbelievable show, I bid you farewell and thanks for the memories. May your days forever be bright, keep smiling, we love you.

ELBOWS OFF THE TABLE... The Eligible Bachelor III

In order not to seem out of place when dining out, it would behoove you to practice your table manners daily. Practice, young gentemen, makes perfect. If the establishment uses linen napkins then it is to be placed in your lap. Please remember ELBOWS OFF THE TABLE AT ALL TIMES. When eating with a knife and fork pretend that you are wearing gloves and can't touch your food. As I stated before, I've eaten fried chicken to the bone without it ever leaving my plate, usually to the amazement of my date. Remember that no matter how you may devour your food when you're alone this method will mot suffice when dining out. The point of a dinner date is to engage in conversation while enjoying your meal. So, BREATHE. Take your time and if it's a first date do your best to keep her talking about her interests, this gives you time to chew. Keep eye contact as much as possible. The worst thing I've experienced is a date with their head in the plate. It doesn't give you a chance to create any intimacy. The eyes are the window to the soul, it helps you to feel out what a person is feeling. Tell tale signs that things aren't going well are wondering eyes or a far off "wish I wasn't here" stares. As a note, I preferred to have face to face conversations as opossed to long phone chat.

Another noteworthy point is the organization of your plate. Your meal will most likely already come apportioned and seperated on your plate. Try to take a little bit from each section and place it on your fork use the knife as a guide and work inward. This method decreases the chance of your food ending up on the table and your clothes instead of your mouth. If your eating a meal what comes with sauce or gravy be exceptionally diligent and tak eyour time getting the food in your mouth while leaning in slightly to shorten the distance between you and the table. Please note, if you can't see the napkin in your lap you're too close to the table. If you order the corn on the cob, ask for toothpicks, DO NOT, AT ANY POINT, STICK YOUR FINGER IN YOUR MOUTH. The corn should have come with it's own corn holders, if not use your fork to stick the corn on its cob side. If you order soup, you sip from the side of the spoon. If you've order porridge or a thick type of soup you place the point of the spoon in your mouth as you would a fork. So remember, SOUP ON THE SIDE, PORRIDGE ON THE POINT. If there is bread on the table you ARE ALLOWED TO USE YOUR HANDS. There should be tongs on the table or in the basket for the bread. If you are dinner after a formal event, an opera for example, it's very possible that your date may have on long gloves which she may not choose to remove. In any case, offer her bread first and place it on her small bread plate for her.

There is no time limit when dining. Our schedules may regulate our time somewhat and if other events for the night take precedence then an hour should suffice. I never enjoy a rushed meal and try my best to give my self at least an hour and a half. As a rule I NEVER EAT ANYWHERE THAT WILL BE CLOSED A HALF HOUR BEFORE I'M SEATED. Why? At that time the kitchen is being broken down and any fresh food preperation is minimal. How do you feel when you're almost done with work and then get a big load as you daydream of your couch and favorite show? Exactly, I don't like it and I don't do it to anyone else if I can help it. I expect great service but what can I expect from a tired crew at the end of their shift.

Until next we meet, remember Practice Makes Perfect. The Eligible Bachelor.

Red.71

Pull Your Pants Up!!!

As old as I am, I feel much younger than my years. I still watch videos and imitate the latest dance steps and can appreciate some of the style that has evolved with the growth of urban music. However, as a heterosexual male totally in love with the opposite sex, I DO NOT see the need nor practically of young men wearing their pants below their buttocks. I have had the unfortunate pleasure of wearing pants 2 sizes too big and an insufficient belt to hold them up. It makes walking unlike a penguin virtually impossible and running is out of the question. Not only is it impractical but what message are you young men trying to send?
Forgive my naivety but it appears that you're showing your ass literally! But who is it for? Half of the young men wandering the streets don't even have draws worth showing. I've had gold teeth (6 pairs), gold chains, pinky rings, flatops, slopes, braids, suede Pumas, fat laces, windbreakers, Cazals, fitted caps and I have let my pants slouch but there's a limit before one reaches ridiculous.
I've asked numerous young ladies and grown women and most concur. These young men look a bit retarded. Maybe Marky Mark's underwear ads may have been the beginning but its gone too far. We've gone from jeans that are too baggy to jeans too tight to get over your backside. Kinda crazy. I'm all for women in tight jeans, personally I need the room to breathe. I have a hard enough time getting anything larger than a credit card out of my button fly Levi's. Needless to say, True Religion and Antik Denim or the like are " no friend of mine" (Run-DMC). Lucky Brand, Levi's about do it for me, just different shades and fits but I can't do the rest and I've tried.
So please, if you or someone you know is walking around a bit retarded, please pull them to the side and tell them to PLEASE PULL THEIR PANTS UP!!! We are a long way from suits and suspenders as the young men's uniform. Maybe we need to get a little more retro in regard to style. The 80's are back maybe we need to set the dial a little further back. Let's exhibit some class gentlemen, there's got to be a better way to show off your $400 b.b. simon rhinestone studded belt than having your pants at your knees. Let's get it together, get it right and keep it tight.
Red.71

The Eligible Bachelor II

As I explained previously, this series shall serve as advice for young men based on my own experiences. This is not to be taken as a "bible" to bachelorhood but rather a guide, let's continue.
Chivalry is NOT dead. If you're not it the habit of opening doors and helping women down steep declines then start getting used to the idea. Now this is something I practice daily with women of all ages.
Opening a door and letting a woman through first signifies that you are totally aware of her delicateness, not to be mistaken for weakness. If you are driving then car doors also apply. Ideally, when you arrive at your destination you should get out, open her door and offer her hand to ease her exit. Pulling out her seat at the dining table or wherever suitable is always part of the program. I once went out with a young lady and I pulled out her chair as she we were shown our table and she went to the other side. I laughed to myself and realized she wasn't used to a gentlemen's ways. We still had a decent time although we didn't hit it off and I believe it was in part to her feeling a little out of place in this upscale restaurant w/it's wine list and linen. She was amazed that I could eat fried chicken bone clean w/o ever picking it up w/my fingers.
Practice makes perfect and a little chivalry betters everyone's day. One of my installments will cover table manners, ELBOWS OFF THE TABLE!!! Stay tuned. The Eligible Bachelor.